Losing Yourself In A Relationship

It’s only after 6-7 months of being out of my previous relationship that I started to regain a sense of self. I stopped pushing away the things I’d been interested in since I was young ( Anime, Gaming, Competitive Sports and just being free and independent enough to do what i want) and they became…

šŸ™ƒLiving With An Ex šŸ™ƒ

  DISCLAIMER: THIS POST IS VERY UNEDITED SO DON’T JUDGE LMAO   I was 20 turning 21 when I experienced love for the first time. My ex and I clicked so much that before I knew it he was living in my student accommodation with me. Fast forward three years and we lived in a…

Letter To Mum(my)

Mum, It’s 2017 and I’m 23. After 8 years of being angry and confused I feel it’s time we spoke. Remember in 2007 before Zimbabwe got Wi-Fi and we used to write each other handwritten letters. Something we had to stop doing when Ā I wrote a letter describing the abuses I was under living at…

Letter To Me RE: Letting Go

Before I start thisĀ post I’d likeĀ to say how amazing the support and words of encouragement were after i posted the Dear Mum(my) post back in March Ā That article was a part of a healing process that was actually sparked by UK Grime and Hip Hop artist Stormzy and his song Lay Me Bare; “Like bro…

Dear Angry Black Girl/WomanĀ 

See I have spent most of my adult life worrying about how I’m perceived and trying to avoid the angry black girl persona ( loud, passionate and clapping my hands to punctuate my sentences)